Tuesday, December 29, 2009

How To Open Chi Straightener

Liberty, Fraternity and Equality Trauma 2010

Proclaimed more than 200 years in France, but never so present in me at the beginning and the end of 2009. What follows is a mix of memories and conclusions for the year ended more than a few personal resolutions for the coming year.

Intro. Winter London
On the streets of London. Looking for entertainment during the cold January of 2009, I am standing in front of a theater with the image of a girl in blue wind. Les Miserables, the musical, we will see what it is. Upon leaving I was imbued with the spirit of freedom that Victor Hugo vindicate 50 years after the well-known revolution. Back to the hotel to drive in hand, never imagining that those issues would accompany me most in 2009.

I. student again
With snow shoes. That left the house of Mrs Anne Harlow towards my English classes in Oxford. Another language, another people, another meal. He was the lone month ever had: February, the month of love and I had a boyfriend to my Ipod. He's so cute, every morning I whispered a song from "Les Mis", responding to my state of mind: "Who am I?" when I was leaving the English to talk about my country (that contains my family, my friends my food, my habits, my land, I), "I Dreamt a dream" when recomposed my ideals to think about my career and taking the audience to my classmates than 20 years old, "Do you hear the people sing?" when reading a news Perulandia social events. In my time in Oxford I learned a lot and missed a lot more. In my memories are chats with Alfre, Santi and Lucho.

II. Bagua
ghosts spirit and I removed 20 years after my old fears returned. This time the face was another, but the violence was the same .... killed among Peruvians! -No comment. Further south, another shadow is spreading, the recycling is gaining ground dictator reinterpreting theories 40 years ago when the world was different, copying failed programs and making the tough guy with his left hand while the right to receive money from those who called enemies. I dreamed that dream recently and has been repeated since then. And repeats the dream white icing, in which everything is overheating, and not only exploding popcorn ...

III. Women's liberation?
A dear friend came to breakfast at home for several months. Of all the issues we reviewed touch with Jane Austen. ! Who knew that both knew and gustare of their stories! When my friend it was I was thinking about what women have advanced in 200 years, from Jane Austin to Paola Vicente. I married for the free choice of my senses, mitigate mitigate the costs and I am the princess of my own domains. But now that I see as Mexican novel cow there and I feel we still have many things to do. In other cultures, a lot more and not only happens for women. In a conversation with a leg chamba is Indian and who married this year I asked, "you married for love?" I do not understand. He continued, "you married for love?" It actually encodes the message, but the metatext not come to me ... bone in the XXI century I question how this leg if I married for love? ... clear then! or is there another way to get married? Then he would tell me that their marriage was arranged by the families of the couple, the same as had 7 days to know before accepting the link. He skirted the 35 and was the bachelor of the family, the bride liked, so I said yes.

IV. Coca Colas, Colas and Crushes Inka
convention may sound a soda, this was the term used to refer to the three known sex: Cokes were men, Inka Colas Crushes girls and gays. Birthday Meeting was a good friend whose uncles were in the kitchen and should not listen to the theme of our conversation, especially since my friend is the group of Crushes. That night and Cokes bluntly, Inka Crushes Colas and talk about the myths that we straights about gays and vice versa, and the way we communicate with each other. That night, for the first time, I was part of a healthy minority.

V. organizational culture chamber
addition to an international body, I do consulting work climate and always find the same constant. All the companies here have a multicultural component, but not only because the leaders are foreigners, but because the local kids from different social strata. Obviously, the small groups are assembled as work teams, ages, gender, background, etc. So far, the thing is nothing to write home. The problem begins when the affinity is governed by profit. They have not been in the workplace that they come together just 2 or 3 strong personalities with great pessimism that a gray cloud suddenly alight across the enterprise? How they think it would be if these people were rather the positive, the proactive, which catch the enthusiasm to others?

VI. An artist in the family
Lucho, my brother, is the creator, director, composer (and everything that ends with or) the project Sounds Live . Alfre, my husband is the producer of all the craziness that has been made on behalf of this project. And it is crazy what they have advanced in so many years, especially this year in theaters and concerts in the Plaza Mayor in Lima and in Montreal, CDs, DVDs and even go shooting a documentary that is being awarded in several festivals. Along the way are old friends and displayed many new ones. Sponsors also appear next year, right? Peruvian music and world music are worth the effort.

VII. National blasting
While many will doubt it, I see on the street (at least for the streets where it always happened). Never have so many new cars, never such order, never so many domestic films, never have so many books on Peruvian food, never so many designer shops or Peruvian designers, never so many plays, never have so many "shows of Dreams ... I hope to change the street can still see the same thing.

VIII. Imagine
few days ago I went to see a play made by special children. With the drama of Mary Cesar, the actors we talked to the "not special" they feel about the look. You can imagine a Christ down? down a girlfriend? a mother down? As you respond to a leg that you Sire in the street if it were down? That day I looked different from that young person I love so much and I looked at myself differently.

"Dignity, Liberty, Fraternity, Equality" was the phrase repeated throughout the night. The dream dreamed 200 years ago was updated and increased dignity.

"Dignity, Liberty, Fraternity, Equality" is what I wish all of you for 2010, to everyone, every day ... in homes, workplaces, streets.

Colophon. Winter London
end in a few days and start the year back to London, will be like closing a circle to start another. My Ipod, my boyfriend's coming with me. He will whisper in my ear his best songs and it will select the new items to accompany me next year. In addition to my songs, which I store for 2010? As the lyrics say "One Day More" from "Les Mis": "tomorrow we will know what God has in store for us, another day, another sunrise, another day ..." This mixture of fear and hope at the thought of a new day never better described, ever.



PS: Here my resolutions for next year and no order of priority
- Driving without closing their eyes
- Sleep ... less
- Write, write, write ... (On the blog, my sister, fiction)
- keep dreaming and working on my dreams
- Playing sports (and consider the playstation game, no?)
- Take up the violin (do not be drawn on rockband?)
- Do not lose my friends (I hope that 2011 is not "recover the lost friends)

Monday, December 7, 2009

What Does High Esr Means

40 DAYS DEDICATED TO MARRIAGE-4


31 .-
LOVE AND MARRIAGE

Do you have a point that you are "forgetting" and have not had the courage to overcome it yet? Platícaselo your spouse today and solve it once. Unity in your marriage depends on it. Continues and a commitment to your spouse and with God to make your marriage a top priority over any other relationship.
This point is a reinforcement of our challenge yesterday. In order to close ranks with determination and success, we will fight a lot, especially if the word unit has been out of our vocabulary of marriage.


32 .- EL AMOR
satisfy the sexual needs

If possible, try to start a sexual relationship with your spouse today. Make it so that honor and your spouse (a) told you about what you need sexually. Ask God to make it enjoyable for both and is a way to increase your privacy.
The husband should fulfill his duties as husband and wife as well. The wife does not have his body, but the husband. Likewise the husband does not have his body but the wife.
not deny that right to each other, unless they decide together, and for some time, with In order to devote more time to prayer. After being together again, lest they fall into the traps of satan for not knowing master.
1 Corinthians 7, 3-5

33 .- SUPPLEMENTS WE LOVE

Realize your spouse (a) is an integral part of your future success. Let him know your desire today include (a) in your upcoming decisions, and that you need their perspective and advice. If you've ignored your comments in the past, supports your carelessness and ask for forgiveness.
"Two are better than one, because they have better pay for their work. Because if one of them falls, the other will lift up his fellow: but woe to him who falls when there is not another to lift him up "(Ecclesiastes 4:9,10).


34 .- EL AMOR CELEBRATE THE RIGHT WAY

Think of a specific situation where your spouse has recently demonstrated Christian character in a remarkable way. Make him a comment about this at some time during the day.

is normal for us to rejoice when our spouse reach goals be taken to overcome, but we should be happy when you reach goals that will lead to closer to God. We admire these achievements more and let them know, so that the support is mutual.



35 .- EL AMOR ACCOUNTABLE

Find a mentor for your marriage: a good Christian who is sincere and loving you. If you think that therapy is needed, take the first step and make an appointment. During this process, ask God to direct your decisions and give you discernment.

always good to have a spiritual advisor about us, our marriage and our family. Someone who sees things from outside, which objectively makes us realize the things that we walk to fail, but without forgetting the spiritual level that we take our marriage.

To us in our crisis, we are not missing, fortunately, but also had to attend several therapy sessions. By the grace of God, had the good fortune to find a Catholic psychologist who helped and that we go back a long way in a general and complete, trying to fill all the gaps that had opened in our lives.

The fool is sure of his decisions, but a wise man listens to advice.
Proverbs 12, 15



36 .- LOVE IS THE WORD OF GOD



Commit to read the Bible every day. Get a spiritual book or other resources to help you find some guidance. If your spouse is willing ask if you agree to commit to reading a passage with you. Begin to have every area of \u200b\u200btheir lives according to God's Word and build on the rock.

If one hears these words of mine and puts them into practice, it will say: Here are the wise man who built his house on rock. The rain fell, the floods, the winds blew and fell upon that house, but did not fall, because he had the foundation on rock.
Matthew 7, 24-25


37 .- THE LOVE TO PRAY TOGETHER


Ask your spouse if you can begin to pray together. Decide what is the best time to do so, either in the morning, at lunchtime or before bedtime. Use this time to trust the Lord to the concerns, disagreements and needs. Do not forget to thank Him for His provision and blessings. Even if your spouse refuses to do so, decides to spend this time alone in prayer daily.

Also I say, if the land two of you agree to any request thing, my Heavenly Father grant them. For where two or more gathered in My name, there am I in their midst.
Matthew 18, 19-20


38 .- LOVE REACHES GOALS



think you would like your spouse, if possible. Put it in prayer and begin to develop a plan to meet some of their desires (not all), as far as you can.

sometimes forget or put aside the dreams of our spouse. There are times when we are so busy, trying to reach us, that we walk away from what he or she wants. We will work to our couples reach their goals. At the end of the day, we will be working for the family and its growth.



39 .- THE LOVE LASTS


Spend time praying alone. Then, write a letter of commitment and resolve to your spouse. Includes why you agree with this marriage until death, and express love that you have set no matter what happens. Leave the letter in a place where your partner can find.

Till death do us part. . . .

Many take this commitment lightly. It seems that today many are not ashamed to commit to something they are certain they will not comply.

Love endures, endures because we want it, persists because feeding, care, we serve. For we intended from the beginning. And although there are many problems, many roadblocks, many situations that make us want to give up and throw us back, we must always be true and remember that we engaged in this endeavor by our own will.

this year I think it's great that we propose, because it helps to put in the hands of God that commitment to Him to renew and forces us to respect it and move on. I like writing things because we feel, also stay in our minds and heart, they are recorded leaving an indelible ink written by the love of God that overflows with us.



40 .- LOVE IS A COVENANT



Write a renewal of your vows and place in your home. Perhaps, if any, might plan a formal renewal of your vows before a priest, with family present. That is a living affirmation of the value of marriage in the eyes of God and the honor of being one with your spouse.

No need to wait for a wedding anniversary or a special date. I like those moments when renewing their marriage vows with spouses' own words, without following words written by others.

Once we got to see a renewal of vows and in Canada and the priest gave them freedom to express what is wanted particularly promising. A very emotional moment.

Where you go, I will go and where you mores, dwell. Your people shall be my people and thy God my God. (Ruth 1:16)


Sunday, November 22, 2009

Living Room Color To Contrast Brown

teen



FICTION ANYONE TAKEN FROM A CONVERSATION BETWEEN FRIENDS

PAO (talking with feet):
pump ... I was spent in high school. It was theater, wrote the school plays and even encouraged the headline performance last year ... was also on the volleyball team and even went the DT, the shit !!!!! oh, and as my last name begins with V, I always called last to review the tasks and that was at that moment and guess what?? ended just in time, with abstract patterns and all ... was a relajadaza, but got good grades. My lifelong friends I made at school and even studied with pure women, never had a problem with the kids ...

ARMANDO 1:
not talk to me about school ... I fucked the idiots always football team and even the looser was thought to throw me right to water in the hallways ... Good thing the defendant with the Father, if not ... I do not know what I have done. I never had friends, for all I care! ... Although in reality, only Peter, as we did gender alliance! jejeje

LILA:
The truth is that I hated high school, and I never had love lorna why ... I hung out with the most room to move plastics of rope, but I did do things maleadas up in public I had to cop my best friend from elementary to walk with these tared! Not crazy I go to reunions, I will not step on the school anymore!

NOE:
No, in my school were either tainted. Which was seized from lorna suffered from everything, even when they pichi throw in a bag or the typical dark alley was seized of eggs. Caballero, I had to follow if it was not lorna or crazy month and I risked to get egg just ... ARMANDO

2:
happened to me as I was Lorna the most gay lounge ... clear was my stage of denial ... if I see again, like they would apologize ...

GENERAL GREAT SILENCE

PAO (thinking that maybe I was lucky or that her school was recontra monse):
And I thought that these crap only happened in the peel gringas about teenagers ... ---------


Thanks to YouTube, gringo recounts how hard it can be when school tags:
- The Breakfast Club. Pure 80's. Main photo: A princess, a wanderer, an athlete, a maladaptive, a genius, folks? Soundtrack: Do not you forget about me? version tribute 20 years on MTV.
- High School Musical for the Disney marbles. Soundtrack: Stick to the status quo. The popular and nerds twists and turns? no way!
- Glee , the latest claim of anyone who has suffered a little look of contempt at school. Soundtrack: Do not stop believing

Tuesday, November 10, 2009

Fotos Denuda Paty Montorola

Captain Memo and my generational leap in October


And finally! This time I could see Captain Memo Live. He played last Sunday at the close of CONAMYC , a comics convention held in Lima.

here If you wonder who is the Captain Memo, do not feel a freak. I wondered the same thing when he mentioned Alfre 3 years ago: "El Capitan Memo Aguirre memo is a Chilean musician" ... as I continued to face "ahhhh?, He continued:" ... the leg that he wrote lyrics, music and voice of "Candy Candy", "Marco" "Angel the flower girl," Mazinger Z "," He-Man, "" The festival of robots, "" Fables of the Green Forest ", etc, etc, etc.

Ahhhh! In fact that your face is just like mine at that time. A glimmer of happiness made you smile and just as I also reminded Speed \u200b\u200band Spark, Caty and Rope, the last chapter of Candy which was the creek and yes you could see, Mazinger Z and Aphrodite missiles. And without wanting wanting you came to mind those evenings when you sat in front of your TV eating popcorn and playing with your brothers the festival of robots (My sister and I played with dolls cutouts too.)

let it fly And if your mind will begin to remember all the other details that marked your childhood, when your main concern was to fill the figures in your album "The why of things", do you remember the "Yala, nola, sila ? code more popular when it came time to exchange figures. Or the "ta-ta-ta-ta-Tatata" to drink milk (he had a dairy at home!) Next to Uncle Johnny? Polastri Yola was the queen of the shorter and Cindi Lauper Britney Spears today. Returning to

happy Sunday, I must say that before Memo to play I was not quite located entirely. To begin, we in the midst of a karaoke competition in Japanese, we received several microfalda schoolchildren and red wig (departures of some cosplay) and saw only dolls at auction. I felt alone when only recognized the "Spiderman" to "Yoda" Star Wars "Homer" of The Simpsons meanwhile disguise. So, is my most recent reference in the world of anime comes from the nineties? I struggled to understand this portion of today's generation ... but failed in the attempt. Beginning Japanese I know not, did not know a diva song Salome ('s Extraordinary voice and opening for Memo) and because no one undressed me because there I was the weirdo.

In that moment of frustration anthropological, Captain Memo began his show with a slide show of all musicalized cartoons during the 80's. I made a zapping of my childhood, things that happened over twenty years and I remembered very vividly. I could not help being moved. Each image was the evocation of a happy moment and every song out of my mouth without my noticing. My voice was not only mine, I was part of the mass, the collective unconscious. Screams, laughter, tears and more songs. If there is an analogy for that time, I'd say Angel Memo was finding its seven-color flower in the crowd.

During the concert I also had my analytical moment (I could not help), what if we like the Captain Memo children because it reminds us of rice pudding I want to marry?, What if the quality of each song does not have the emotional component, we would like or would like least?

looked around. Children 5 years raising his little fist and screaming He-man!, Emos of 15 with phones up while chanting "because in the forest we find in the forest ..." and "Sailor Moon" pogueando with "Trek" to the rhythm of it King Arthur is so good ...". Captain Memo knows no generational barriers and when something like that happens, the creator of this phenomenon is just great!

At the end of the evening changed my approach and stopped looking for differences to find similarities. Cartoons always make our childhood, except that our generation lived with the TV signal and open the side of them via youtube comment in a forum on-line. This concert was, without doubt, the best bridge to remember my childhood eighties and put myself in the shoes of the 2000 generation. Captain Memo Thanks!

This Memo was traveling through the galaxy with Capt. Future ... (Thanks youtube!)

Monday, October 19, 2009

How To Wear A Bandana As A Mask



is my birthday (9).
the same day that John Lennon was born. To my grandfather, the day of National Dignity. The

my sister (the 3).

month we had a mom at home.
She took holidays in October to celebrate our keep. I made my favorite dish: baked chicken style input ocopa mom and your hard little egg more.

purple is the month (the Lord of Miracles and for him the middle name of my sister) and processions.

Next month we go to downtown Lima is quite an ordeal, especially in the mornings.

nougat is when eaten at home (although it proved only a teaspoon, I lost a family tradition for nothing!).

is also the month of the tremors. There was a horrible
at 3pm. I picked up at school in literature class with Miss Esther.

Angamos Combat It. We celebrate that we lost, but it's cool to have a holiday one day before the meet.

is Oktoberfest in Germany, Russian Revolution, the discovery of America, UN Foundation, Halloween, Day of the Creole Song ...

is the month of my promo tour. My first Once in Cusco, my first cigarette, my first spree ending a week, the first time I read hands, my first lesson in the apus, nature, finding himself and being a vegetarian (and pronounced by a gringo!) .

's when there was only two months to complete the cole and when the school began to walk without a jacket.

is when the sun comes after winter. Warm, soft, hopeful.

Monday, October 12, 2009

Medium Strength Magnets

Life "Solteritas" and is best done young

Anibal Cuevas
Happiness homespun

Life "Solteritas"

Marriage is incompatible with a life of "solteritas." It is true there must be areas of autonomy but marriage is not simply the sum of two individuals, but something new. Spouses who have lived parallel lives, whether in the professional, cultural or economic are doomed to walk further apart and end up not know and to be advanced without looking at the side.

statistics say the number of divorces is increasing around the summer holidays, when husbands spend time living and realize how little that unites them in the winter each went his own way.

is best done young

Chestertonian remember that the idea to marry must be mad and to have children, very crazy. Indeed there are many people who plan it so much, what I am going, when I go to finishing school, where I work, where I'm going to go in my career ..... and finally, at the very end, getting married or having raised a son

As is often the very end, about thirty-five or forty years, the case that many women fail to become pregnant and begins the madness of artificial insemination, in vitro fertilization ..... If they succeed, neither the body nor the type of life that have been adapted to have a child and the problems begin.

Again I quote Chesterton who said that those who end up sick in the head are rational, those who organized all those planning. Most sane, madmen who decide to do things without much planning, get married when they fall in love with the person you want to spend the rest of your life, have children when they are young and enjoy the mystery and insanity of raising a family.

Swishers Vs Zig Zag Blunt Wraps

Each feather flock together

by Laura Aguilar Ramírez

remember many times my mom wisdom that guided me. And maybe in that time, I seemed unimportant things, but stayed in my subconscious and made me make the right decisions for my life, thank God.

One of the "advice" he gave me and which I have been the basis of my marriage was "Mijito when you marry, your husband will put a round room, but otherwise"

Another was "Mijito . Study a short career that allows you to be in your home.

Those two tips I have been very helpful. Now that you have read the Word of God, I see that are based on them.

Genesis 2
18. Then said the Lord God: "It is not good that man should be alone. I will make a suitable partner. "
19. And the Lord God formed the ground all farm animals and all birds of the sky and led to the man to see what he would call, and that every living being had the name the man gave him.
20. The man gave names to all cattle, birds of heaven and all the wild animals, but for the man did not find adequate help.
21. Then the Lord God cast a deep sleep on the man, who fell asleep. And he took one of his ribs and closed up its place with flesh.
22. And the rib which the LORD God had taken from man into a woman and brought her to the man.
23. Then he exclaimed: " This last is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh. This shall be called Woman, because the man has been taken. "
24. Therefore a man leaves his father and mother and cleaves to his wife, and they become one flesh.
25. They were both naked, the man and his wife, but not ashamed of each other. Genesis 3

14.Entonces Lord God said unto the serpent, "Because you have done this, you are cursed above all cattle, and above every beast of the field. Walk on your belly and eat dust all the days of your life.
15. will put enmity between thee and the woman, and between thy seed and her seed: he shall bruise your head while you bruise his heel . '
16. The woman said: "I will greatly thy trouble as many as your pregnancy: thou shalt bring forth children in pain. your husband, your desire shall be, and he will rule.

19.3-6 SAN MATEO Have not read that in the beginning the Creator made them male and female, and said: "Therefore a man leaves his father and mother and be united to his wife , and the two shall become one flesh "?


I have marked in bold, those parties which for me is based wisdom that my mother advised me.
He formed the woman to be man's help. The man was formed to take care and styling Eden.
She was fitted with a "special meaning" that makes us be aware of what can hurt our children. This in order to crush the head of the serpent (read evil)

And the woman said her husband would like and he would dominate.

Recall that the term master is used as a "know" how to understand.

God in His justice, punished the man and woman and the snake for having disobeyed. But in his infinite mercy, gave them to men and women what they need out of Paradise.
The man sent to work the land with the sweat of their brow. A woman appointed him to childcare and her husband, helping him.

This last is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh. This shall be called Woman, because the man has been taken. "Said the man be transmitted to women.

That is, every man and woman who marry, are made for each other, are the sheep of his family.
But without forgetting that the woman was made to help her husband.

it is a point I casually. Today, women have forgotten that divine command. Has again run into the same stone and if before, gave him to eat the apple to Adam, now wanted more than him.

Increasingly, women marry men inferior to them in some sense, be it economic, either school or knowledge, be it social.
And these marriages eventually go through very severe crisis, which can be overcome because nothing is impossible with God, but it takes both trust God and not themselves.

Couples should be a kind. As similar as possible in terms of education, education, lifestyles, religious beliefs, in order to reconcile. Of course, no shortage of problems (for that of the snake) but together they can be solved, if you have the Holy Spirit as a guide.

Increasingly, I see marriages that are unhappy and So unhappy are those around them, starting with their own children.
And I've noticed that are marriages in which the woman is superior to man in some way.

Many end in divorce, having sworn that the differences do not matter.

Many pass through life filled with neuroses to others, but they seek in themselves the causes of their problems.

classic is a woman fall in love with a man for his bravery, because they are cute, because they are workers or any other reason.

And men tend to want what another man has. It can be an economic position, social status. And this can be misleading when choosing your companion for life.
other and both are wrong to think that no matter whether there is much difference between them, just think his "love" to succeed. But they do not realize that love is based on being a kind. "Flesh of his flesh, bone of his bones," as the Word of God.

and speak clearly, she should be a little less than men in terms of social position or education.

There is a saying of the popular wisdom that says: "Women who know Latin, no husband, nor come to fruition"
Many women see this as an offense. I think it's simple wisdom. My mom told me that someone should fit prudence.
was the woman who induced by the serpent, gave the man eating the apple. And this I agree, it's true but it was not on to whom it occurred. It only lacks willpower. The woman's domain. Eva
was reckless. And Adam and took herself to no good end.

I am of course, sexist. I think that women and men are equal in their dignity as children of God. I think women, when equipped with the necessary guile to defeat the snake that can harm her and her children, should be inferior to men. Otherwise, tend to want to dominate. And nothing good comes from it.

most sublime model is the Virgin Mary. And many women away from the ever more, unfortunately.

Women's happening now, by a serious crisis as a genre. She loves her husband, but wants to be more than to own it and manage it.

is why it moves away from God and His Word. No leads to life, the Gospel. He does not live according to it.

Another part that I marked in bold. 16. The woman said "I will greatly thy trouble as many as your pregnancy: thou shalt bring forth children in pain. your husband, your desire shall be, and he will rule.

This will rule is that men do not understand and what makes their wives often "rebel."
He did not feel appreciated, valued, understood. That's master.


is there where I understand women because I am a woman too.

However, I believe in the wisdom of my mother: "Prudence must fit into one. That fit you."
If he fails as a man and head of the household, the woman should have the prudence and wisdom to face him instead, help him in his work.

To do this, God said I will greatly your toil, how are your pregnancy. with pain you will give birth to your children .


For the children, we appeal to our wisdom, for the children we try to find how to deal with our spouse. It was not a punishment. Was the key God gave us and strengthen us to resist.

is where we are failing as a women.

We fight fire with fire. And we're burning.

If I Have Hemorrhoids Can I Do Bikini Wax

Love and sexuality in marriage.

We have said that there are different kinds of love. The highest form of love is the autodonaci or n person's own (give my life to another.) The marriage is one of the ways in which delivery is possible for oneself, since it is the institution of total commitment between a man and a woman to give effect to the mutual surrender, which implies a for always and only t ú . Love is "totalizing" all or nothing . The conditions and restrictions are for trade. This is the meaning of conjugal love strictly speaking. There is no alternative.

And the sense of celebration or n actual marriage (both civil and canon) is to provide p ú ideally released this shared commitment to society (it is not logical that this commitment remains hidden) and to the Creator (since we have not ourselves into existence, nor have we "invented" we love). Moreover, there bridal party without legal act in which man and woman mutually give and accept. And is that both the law and the Fiesta are social realities. Nobody is able to hold a party for í s alone, regardless of dem to s . Let

detail the characteristics of married love . The all degenerates into bias, and ceases to be love, if we attempt to union with more than one person or interpose a time limit. Marital love can not reconcile with the timing or mediocrity. You can not fully love a declaration in which among explicit a limitation either in terms of intensity, whether in terms of temporal duration.

Someone has said that "marriage is delivered forever. In this sense, is as definitive as parachute jump without í das : once you've jumped, there is no going back. Instead, marry the legal possibility Divorce is like parachute jump: I do not fully neglect the other. I do not trust him, do not put my life completely in your hands. "

The language expresses the mood of conjugal love : when someone says "I love you" means that it is forever, since no one thinks to say "I love you, but as I you are useful" or "I love you until I find another (a) better than you" or "I love you until I get tired," etc.. Love, s í same, or is vocations n of permanence: the lovers know there is eternity.

THE SEXUAL DIMENSION

The dimension or sexually . It is clear that there was no sexual differentiation in humanity if not for the need of having children. Just note that sexuality involves differences in humans are differences that enable women to motherhood and parenting man : the sexual distinction points to the mother-father diversity. In all other vital functions (nutrition, automotive, sensory awareness, spiritual understanding, goodwill, etc..) Women and men are fundamentally equal.

With respect to reproduction, the man has to realize this directing role with intelligence and will: have children so they are also involved in the vocation to love , since this is the natural destiny of man. This is how the "play" becomes "pro-creation" (generation surrounded by love), this is how sexual life also becomes n é through love. Love is

superaci or n differences to reach the ID: just the sexual union of a man and a woman has to aspire to be the excess (the result of total dedication ) sexual diversity, to form one single life (from the communion of bodies "be achieved" communion of spirits "). That is, sexual diversity offers humanity a way of expressing deep love, total, intimate and tender ( cf. Ingenier course í to Love II ).

A love that is manifested by a couple living consistently committed to a total and each other's lives, both spiritual and corporal also . The expression of this commitment at the body goes through sexual surrender .

Donation sex is not like any other type of delivery: it is precisely the gift of my own "I" and my privacy deeper body (remember that the body is part of my self and it is not a simple tool for Whimsical my freedom.) This allows us to assert that sexual release is full of meaning when performed as CONFIRMATION or n of the total body spiritual gift to the spouse.

sexual function is a something that is quite unique and that it is likely to be an expression of love, but in a way unlike any other romantic events. In particular, sexual surrender to privacy is a body without reservation , and it is logical that occurs within an area of \u200b\u200bunreserved donation (the institution of marriage): give the body without giving the whole life be í a " fraud : it would give my self (body) without giving my self (spiritual).

MARRIAGE AND SEXUALITY

marriage and sexuality. The characteristics of commitment to "exclusivity" (one with one) and "totality" (forever), which define marriage, make this institution ú the unique to scope that it is possible to fully realize the good that is proper to human sexuality. Sexuality is not something purely biological, but looks while the n cleo ú í person's intimate. The use of sexuality as physical giving has its own truth and reaches its full meaning when it expresses the personal giving of man and woman to death.

From the above, we conclude that in humans includes a dual sexuality goodness (or a double well): First

: sexuality is through intimate interpersonal communication ("unitive"), a feature made possible by the exclusive which is typical of sexual surrender.

Second : sexuality is a means to establish the conditions necessary for the coming of new life (the procreative aspect) and the further education of this new life, whose successful and continuity are guaranteed only through the "forever"

The double goodness of human sexuality (marriage and procreation) is only fully host when exercise is performed within marriage. Y for two reasons.

On the one hand, because, as has been said, the exercise of sexuality naturally looks to the procreation or n children, and this function is followed by a long process of education for love , which requires an atmosphere of love , ie an environment of total and exclusive, full of affection and trust. In short, sexuality calls for a "forever".

On the other hand, we have also found that giving the body in the exercise of sexuality is to give everything man (not like feeding or making others laugh), and that sexuality implies-affected profoundly whole person (sexuality is not a simple mechanical issue, technical or functional). sexual release is I surrender all physical, psychological and existential. In short, sexuality also requires exclusivity.

The "forever" and "exclusive" are precisely the characteristics of marriage .

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1. LOVE IS PATIENT

The first part of this test is simple. While love is communication in many different ways, our words often reflect the condition of our heart.

To this day, devote yourself to show patience and avoid saying anything negative to your spouse. If the temptation surprises you, do not say anything. It's much better control your tongue to say something you might regret .

What dificl for some of us do this! It is indeed a real challenge to master the language and drop the first thing that comes to mind when something bothers us. However, one of the things that Jesus commanded us is to be patient (Mt. 12, 29) and this is a demonstration of love toward our spouse. We will accept the challenge.


2. Love is kind

addition to not say anything negative to your spouse for a second day, make at least one unexpected gesture of kindness.

not really have to be something great or exaggerated. The major activities consist of small details like setting the table to eat, open the car door, garbage out today instead of him, and so on. And consider what it says: "How well you look in that dress," how beautiful you look today, "" I was rich lunch. "
We say: "What Politeness does not courageous "and is a great truth. The physical and spiritual might be developed between the spouses simply.

We must be polite and attentive to the feelings and thoughts of another. To be urbane is to be aware of respect to ourselves.
(Song of Songs 4)


3. LOVE IS NOT SELFISH

Wherever you put your time, energy and money, will become more important for you. It is very difficult to be interested in something you're not investing anything. In addition to avoiding negative comments, buy your partner something that says: "Today I was thinking of you."

Some tastes are accustomed to have become our masters. We defend ourselves by saying that it's our little quirks to which we are entitled for the work we do, whether outside or inside the home, but our spouse will begrudge the smallest detail. We will invest in us, but above all, we will show that when we are together, we're thinking about each other.

"For where your treasure is, there will your heart" (Mt 6, 21)


4-THE LOVE IS MINDFUL
\\ Contact your partner at some time during the workday. With no other interest than to ask how it is and if there is anything you can do for him or her.

it also make use of modern technology: a text message, e-mail, instant message, etc.. to send a recadito saying "I hope you're right," "I wish you a nice day", etc. Although the best thing is to hear your message loud and you give a chance to tell you what you can do for him or her.


5. LOVE IS NOT RUDE

Ask your spouse to tell you three things about yourself that make you feel irritation or disgust. You do not attack or justify your behavior. This is only from their perspective.

And of course, it is proposed to correct himself on the points indicate. It is also an exercise to test our resistance to the inconvenient truth, we also exercise in patience the first day and the kindness of the latter. If you are asking yourself, there is no reason to feel attacked and, logically, there is no need to defend themselves. We should do this with some frequency, to be always aware of what annoys our spouse and rectify it immediately.


6. LOVE IS NOT IRRITATING

Today, choose to react to the difficult circumstances of your marriage, in a loving way, instead of showing irritation. Start by listing those areas where you need to have more flexibility and understanding with your partner. After negative lists anywhere you need out of your life.

The things I get riled up about things my partner and I know there are negative about me. This list helps us keep in perspective the things that I am contributing to existing problems in our marriage, not to throw them in the face of the spouse the first conflict we have.


7. CREE AS \u200b\u200bTHE BEST LOVE

For today's assignment, it takes two sheets of paper. In the first, take a few minutes to write positive things about your spouse. Then do the same with the negative things in the second sheet. Save both pages in a secret place for another day.

There is a purpose and a different plan for each. For some time the rest of the day, choose a positive feature of the first list and thank your partner to have this virtue.



8. LOVE IS NOT JEALOUS

Decide to be the biggest fan and admirer of your spouse and rejected any thought jealous. To help you keep your heart on your spouse and focus on their achievements and strengths, making the list you made yesterday about their negative attributes and burn slightly. Then share with your spouse (a) how happy you feel the success that he or she has had.

Those who know say that one of the most common causes of divorce today is precisely that professional jealousy between the spouses. We resist the idea that better than us in some or many aspects and causes arguments and unfair competition.
Jealousy is
a lack of appreciation for your loved one. Yvon
Bunin



9. LOVE HAS A FRIENDLY FACE

Think of a specific way you'd like to greet your spouse today. Do it with a smile and enthusiasm. Then make up your mind to change your way of welcoming you to reflect love for him or her.

Throughout my life I have learned to greet warmly the people I love. But I learned at home in my family is not accustomed. So for me it was a real challenge for my husband to bring this practice for years have been with my friends and recently with my daughters.

taken me understand that how they greet the couple says a lot about the relationship they have. And it is not matter much as the others "see" it. It's because what matters most is that my husband sees it and feels.

Greet one another with brotherly kiss. (1Pe. 5.14)


10. LOVE IS UNCONDITIONAL
Today
do something unusual for your spouse-something that proves you and him or her that your love is based on your decision and nothing more. Wash the car, clean the kitchen, purchase your favorite dessert, fold the laundry. Show your love for this to be your partner (A) in marriage.

From day one we committed "in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health" Particularly I think to demonstrate unconditional takes more than washing a car or help at home. But understand that this is a "resume" in marriage hurt. My husband and I have been through many trials on this subject and I think we Bunea grade until now.

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11 .- EL AMOR RATE

Love cares, cares.

What need could be your spouse today? Could you do an errand? We can get a back massage or foot? Is there a task of the house that could help? Choose a task that says "I care about you, I value you" and do it with a smile.


So husbands should love their wives as their own bodies: loving wife is loving himself.
(Ephesians 5:28)


12.-LOVE MEANS TO GIVE

Showing love through the voluntary choice of giving in an area of \u200b\u200bdisagreement between you and your spouse. Say you're making your choice in the first place.

My poor husband, I think he has shown on many more occasions to have used this "give." And not because I do not want to, but because there are very few things that I have to. He is not someone who gives a lot of problems in this regard.

not look out for your own interests, but rather the interests of others.
(Philippians 2:4)


13 .- DISCUSSES CLEAN LOVE

Talk to your spouse (a) on the establishment of rules healthy confrontation. If your partner (a) not ready for this, then put in writing your own personal rules "to discuss." Decide to follow when it happens the next disagreement.
I am my beloved and my beloved is mine. (Song of Songs 6:3)

One of the things I learned a long time in this regard, it is focusing on the area the subject of discussion. Often varied and derive from topic to topic when we are discussing something and end up bringing past situations to our present problem. This is something we have to focus and be demanding with ourselves for not staying on topic discussed at that time.

and other agreed points are, for example: Zero ☺
insults. ☺
comparisons not with someone else.
☺ What is decided here, between us remains.
☺ Do not involve children or anyone else, etc.


Many yell and argue until the other is silent.
think you have convinced. And they invariably wrong. Noel
Clarasó



14 .- LOVE DELIGHTS

not worry about something that you normally do so that you can spend quality time with her husband (a). Do something he or she enjoys doing or a project you really enjoy working.
Only Worry about them together.


When we have children, whether few or many, it is common to enroll in an endless routine that each day we may be absorbing more and more and separating us without us noticing.

My husband and I started to go well for some time. Fortunately, we have pieced together the way and as far as we can, we look for moments to share, talk and have fun together. We understand that this benefits all of us: to us and our daughters as well.

Enjoy life with the woman you love all the days of your fleeting life. Ecclesiastes 9:9


15 .- LOVE IS HONORABLE

words, generates and gives honor.

Choose a way to show honor and respect for their spouse who is well above their usual way of doing so. This could be: hold the door to enter or pick up the laundry. Could also be the way you listen and speak in their mutual communication. Show your partner that you have in high esteem in their eyes.


I also think it is the giving of place your spouse before family and friends. If there are children, the spouse will place before the children.
contradictory as it sounds, this creates trust and confidence in children.


16 - THE LOVE PLEADS

begins to pray today for the heart of your spouse. Pray for those three specific areas of the life of your spouse (or) and your marriage where you want God to work.

Today, it is increasingly rare to pray for our spouses. It seems that they do not need or were not important enough to consider them in our prayers. However, it is the most important thing we put on them because they are the basis from which everything else follows: if we have a healthy marriage logically be healthy our children, family, friends and other relationships


17 - LOVE THE INTIDAD CULTIVA Decide

firmly to keep secrets from your spouse (unless they are dangerous for someone) and pray for them. Talk to your spouse and Resolve to show love in spite of anything. Really listen to him carefully when he or she shares her thoughts and inner conflicts with you. Az
you feel safe (a).


One of the major problems we had at the beginning of our marriage, my husband and I were exactly the indiscretions of both pride and inability to forgive the other.

We had to learn a very hard and exhausting for us, that initmidad in a marriage is a basic and important part of it. We can not go around telling our things, good friends who are those willing to listen. Today, we have overcome these issues thanks to God and the communication we have developed, also the bitter experience we had for 15 years.
18 - Love is patient

prepares a special dinner at home, just for you two. Dinner can be as simple or elaborate as you like. Focus this time to get to know your spouse, perhaps in those areas that you seldom share. Decide to make this time a night to remember for you and your partner.

To reach understanding on a couple, you need to meet and communicate.
must take advantage of this situation coomo dinner together to talk, ask, talk with understanding spirit, with ears open, with open heart. The goal is to make it home for dinner without interruption on familiar and intimate that impels us to share what that is in our hearts.



19 - DOES THE IMPOSSIBLE LOVE

Make a quick review of all the days leading up to this moment. Were there some that seemed impossible to you? Did you realize your need of God to change your heart and give you the ability to love? Ask him to show you what your current situation and ask him the strength and grace to achieve your eternal destiny.

When something seems impossible to me, only God can change that. There are many things I need to talk with him, there have been times when I feel faint, they forget my commitments, I absorbed the routine. In this case only the intervention of God can change this situation. I'll work to "invite" to be part of this challenge, this commitment adquirirdo to give my marriage a spiritual sense that makes him the ministry should be.


20 - LOVE IS JESUS \u200b\u200bCHRIST

Dare to receive God and His Word.
Dare to believe that Jesus Christ is the Savior.
Dare to say in prayer: "Jesus, I am a sinner (a). But you have shown me Your love to die to forgive my sins and through of Your power, I saved from death through your resurrection. Lord, change my heart and save me by Thy grace. "

We are spoiled to take Christ out of our lives. We thought we were going to cross fan of obsessive, etc. And when we really decided to accept it, no peace more than we feel. Take Jesus to guide our marriage and our lives is enormous courage, a commitment beautiful, unlike all other commitments that we acquire in our lives, it releases and not drown. With Christ in the midst of our marriage, success is assured.

He (Jesus) gave his life for us
and in this we know love
now we must give our lives for the brethren.
(I John 3, 16)

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21 .- THE SATISFACTION IN GOD IS LOVE

Try to find a special time for prayer and Bible reading. Try reading a chapter of Proverbs each day (there are 31 chapters, enough for a month), or read a chapter of the Gospels. Whatever you choose, immerse yourself in love and the promises God has for us. This will add spiritual growth during your journey with Him

If we are right with God, we hardly get along with others, including our spouse.

During my time in the workshop of prayer, I learned that those who are not accustomed to pray, to talk to God, it is impossible to reflect something that has no inside. The more we pray, God is more present in our consciousness and we easily from selfishness to love, I stop being myself to be more reflective of my Father. If you do not talk to Him and read His Word how we can know and thus become more like Him?
open your hand, and satisfy the desire of every living being.
(Psalm 145:16)


22 .- TRUE LOVE IS

Love is a choice, not a feeling. It is an action brought, not a knee-jerk reaction. Choose today to dedicate to love, even if your spouse has lost any interest in receiving it. Tell

today some words like these: "I love you. I have chosen to love, even if you do not pays me. "

When we understand that love is something we have chosen, then it is less difficult to carry out this exercise of faithfulness and endurance. If a relationship is broken, not fixed in a moment's notice. So we must be patient if we want to save it. We must stand boldly stand with conviction and all that comes over us. If trust is damaged, our efforts are multiplied and can easily succumb to disillusionment. So we need to cling to the Lord as we saw in the previous days, for the strength of Him who help withstand the onslaught of distrust and resentment that our spouse can shed on our efforts. This is a very difficult that only love and LOVE, we can overcome.


I will betroth with mutual fidelity,
and you know who is Lord.
(Hosea 2:22)


23 .- LOVE ALWAYS PROTECTS

Remove anything that is hindering your relationship, any attachment or influence that is stealing your warmth and keeping your heart away your spouse (a).

More there are more risks that can undermine our marriage and we must be always ready and willing to defend against everything and everyone. You need a united front and agree to do together, and be alert to the dangers that lurk in sheep costume. Not all friendships are healthy for our marriage, not all entertainment help our integration as a couple, not all who come to us do so with the intention to respect us. And we must always be an insurmountable barrier to all those hazards that can upset our relationship. It is a fact that under the concept of "my friends are my friends and I will never leave", hides the latent danger of allowing comments, "advice", rumors, etc. that can undermine our marriage. The most important thing must always be our spouse.

24 .- LOVE VS LUST

Finish it now. Identifies each object of lust in your life and remove it. Select every lie that you have left into your life in the pursuit of forbidden pleasure and reject it. A Lust not be allowed to live in the back room. Should be killed and destroyed today and be replaced by the sure promises of God and a heart full of His perfect love.

What we lost the compass and we understand that love is respect, fidelity, intimacy and strength of will to sustain all this?

We are used to succumb to our baser instincts and confuse sex, passion, lust, satisfaction with love. We realize it is because of this that many marriages fail, because once they stop receiving and "feel" all these things, then believe that the love is gone, when in fact there never was and start looking elsewhere what confused with love. What can we do to instill in young people, teach our children

the true sense of love and fidelity? We will have to begin to demonstrate to our spouse and take care of it is very clear the love we feel for him or her.
Sean
free but not freedom
make an excuse to do evil.
I Peter 2, 16


25 .- Love forgives

Anything that still have not forgiven your partner, forgive today. Forget it, let it go. Just as we ask Jesus every day: "Forgive us our trespasses," and we ask Him to help us to "forgive those who trespass against us" every day too. The anger keeps us in prison for a long time. Say it from the bottom of your heart, "I choose to forgive."
Forgiveness is a decision that frees us from an enormous weight in most cases, only that it carried a grudge.

If we are talking about our spouse, the willingness to forgive should be much stronger, it is the person we've chosen to share nososros lifetime.

25 .- LOVE IS RESPONSIBLE

Take the time to pray for those areas where you are failing. Ask God forgive you and agree with those who have enough humility your spouse (a). Do it sincerely and in truth. Ask forgiveness to your spouse. No matter what you answer, make sure you accept all responsibility with love. Even if you respond to criticism, accept them and receive them as advice.

We must take responsibility for our past deeds and recognize them. This is an act of humility that not everyone has, only that they love. This is where many fail, we are so full of pride, so full of ourselves, so sick of our image, our reputation, we are unable to ask for forgiveness for the mistakes we committed. This is an opportunity to be responsible to our partners and accept, without fear of rejection, fear of criticism-that-be.

If we have no sin, we are deceiving ourselves and the truth is not in us.
I John 1, 8


26 - LOVE IS RESPONSIBLE

Take the time to pray for those areas where you are failing. Ask God to forgive you and enough humility to accept those that have your husband (a). Do it sincerely and in truth. Ask forgiveness to your spouse. No matter what you answer, make sure you accept all responsibility with love. Even if you respond to criticism, accept them and receive them as advice.
We must take responsibility for our past deeds and recognize them. This is an act of humility that not everyone has, only that they love. This is where many fail, we are so full of pride, so full of ourselves, so sick of our image, our reputation, we are unable to ask for forgiveness for the mistakes we made. This is an opportunity to be responsible to our partners and accept, without fear of rejection, fear of criticism-that-be.
If we have no sin,
we are deceiving ourselves,
and the truth is not in us.
I John 1, 8

ANIMA LOVE 27 .-
Removes poison unrealistic expectations at home. Think of an area where your wife (or) you said you're expecting too much from her (him), and say that you regret having been so hard (a) with it. Promise to try to understand (or), and assure her that you love him unconditionally.
The expectations that we sometimes have on our partners we are often out of hand. We expect a lot, we love, we demand a lot, but sometimes we are not willing to give to the same extent. One thing is that we encourage our partner to achieve goals and another thing is that we who raised too much and drown as the impetus of our partner.


28 .- THE LOVE MAKES SACRIFICES
What is one of the greatest needs in the life of your spouse now? Is there any charge that could remove from his shoulders today and share with him (It) an act of sacrifice? If the need is great or small, set a goal to do whatever it takes to fix.
One of the questions that should always be in our mouths is "How I can help you?", "What I can do for you?"
know we can not go through life guessing what our spouse needs, we risk to understand things different plane or even see what you need most at that time. Asking questions is the best and clearest solution and be ready always to remove burdens from the shoulders of another.
carry loads from one another,
and so fulfill the law of Christ.
Galatians 6: 2

298 .- LOVE IS MOTIVATION
Before you see your wife (or) again during the day, pray for it ( him) and their needs. Easy or not for you, say "I love you", then express your love in some tangible way. Go back to your prayer to God and thank Him for giving you the privilege to love this special person, unconditionally, just as He love them both.
When my husband I started having problems at the beginning of our marriage, much relied upon by the desire to be the one who put more motivation, who fought over who would more. After all the wretched process which we live, we decided it was worth trying again, starting over, we realized that our motivation should not depart from the other, even ourselves, but the need to please God , to give honor and glory to our attitude, our relationship with our family. At the time that "include," at that time things were straightened out.

30 .- UNIT BRINGS LOVE
Notes generate any areas that division in your marriage, and now uses a new opportunity to pray for it. Ask the Lord to reveal anything you have in your heart and is threatening the unity with your spouse. Pray that He will do the same with your partner. And if appropriate, discuss this openly, seeking unity in God.
If everyone pulled by his side, hardly win against the division. And a marriage that is not joined will not create a family together.
You need to talk, talk, to stand together, have joint goals and not just individual goals. And do not miss anything that may affect or undermine our relationship.
Holy Father, keep them in the name of you that given me,
to be one like us.
John 17, 11b