Guinea Pig Hutch Blueprints

40 DAYS DEDICATED TO MARRIAGE-2

11 .- EL AMOR RATE

Love cares, cares.

What need could be your spouse today? Could you do an errand? We can get a back massage or foot? Is there a task of the house that could help? Choose a task that says "I care about you, I value you" and do it with a smile.

So husbands should love their wives as their own bodies: loving wife is loving himself.
(Ephesians 5:28)

12.-LOVE MEANS TO GIVE

Showing love through the voluntary choice of giving in an area of \u200b\u200bdisagreement between you and your spouse. Say you're making your choice in the first place.

My poor husband, I think he has shown on many more occasions to have used this "give." And not because I do not want to, but because there are very few things that I have to. He is not someone who gives a lot of problems in this regard.

not look out for your own interests, but rather the interests of others.
(Philippians 2:4)

13 .- DISCUSSES CLEAN LOVE

Talk to your spouse (a) on the establishment of rules healthy confrontation. If your partner (a) not ready for this, then put in writing your own personal rules "to discuss." Decide to follow when it happens the next disagreement.

I am my beloved and my beloved is mine. (Song of Songs 6:3)

One of the things I learned a long time in this regard, it is focusing on the area the subject of discussion. Often varied and derive from topic to topic when we are discussing something and end up bringing past situations to our present problem. This is something we have to focus and be demanding with ourselves for not staying on topic discussed at that time.

and other agreed points are, for example: Zero ☺
insults. ☺
comparisons not with someone else.
☺ What is decided here, between us remains.
☺ Do not involve children or anyone else, etc.

Many yell and argue until the other is silent.
think you have convinced. And they invariably wrong. Noel
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14 .- LOVE DELIGHTS

not worry about something that you normally do so that you can spend quality time with her husband (a). Do something he or she enjoys doing or a project you really enjoy working.
Only Worry about them together.

When we have children, whether few or many, it is common to enroll in an endless routine that each day we may be absorbing more and more and separating us without us noticing.

My husband and I started to go well for some time. Fortunately, we have pieced together the way and as far as we can, we look for moments to share, talk and have fun together. We understand that this benefits all of us: to us and our daughters as well.

Enjoy life with the woman you love all the days of your fleeting life. Ecclesiastes 9:9

15 .- LOVE IS HONORABLE

words, generates and gives honor.

Choose a way to show honor and respect for their spouse who is well above their usual way of doing so. This could be: hold the door to enter or pick up the laundry. Could also be the way you listen and speak in their mutual communication. Show your partner that you have in high esteem in their eyes.

I also think it is the giving of place your spouse before family and friends. If there are children, the spouse will place before the children.
contradictory as it sounds, this creates trust and confidence in children.

16 - THE LOVE PLEADS

begins to pray today for the heart of your spouse. Pray for those three specific areas of the life of your spouse (or) and your marriage where you want God to work.

Today, it is increasingly rare to pray for our spouses. It seems that they do not need or were not important enough to consider them in our prayers. However, it is the most important thing we put on them because they are the basis from which everything else follows: if we have a healthy marriage logically be healthy our children, family, friends and other relationships

17 - LOVE THE INTIDAD CULTIVA Decide

firmly to keep secrets from your spouse (unless they are dangerous for someone) and pray for them. Talk to your spouse and Resolve to show love in spite of anything. Really listen to him carefully when he or she shares her thoughts and inner conflicts with you. Az
you feel safe (a).

One of the major problems we had at the beginning of our marriage, my husband and I were exactly the indiscretions of both pride and inability to forgive the other.

We had to learn a very hard and exhausting for us, that initmidad in a marriage is a basic and important part of it. We can not go around telling our things, good friends who are those willing to listen. Today, we have overcome these issues thanks to God and the communication we have developed, also the bitter experience we had for 15 years.

18 - Love is patient

prepares a special dinner at home, just for you two. Dinner can be as simple or elaborate as you like. Focus this time to get to know your spouse, perhaps in those areas that you seldom share. Decide to make this time a night to remember for you and your partner.

To reach understanding on a couple, you need to meet and communicate.
must take advantage of this situation coomo dinner together to talk, ask, talk with understanding spirit, with ears open, with open heart. The goal is to make it home for dinner without interruption on familiar and intimate that impels us to share what that is in our hearts.

19 - DOES THE IMPOSSIBLE LOVE

Make a quick review of all the days leading up to this moment. Were there some that seemed impossible to you? Did you realize your need of God to change your heart and give you the ability to love? Ask him to show you what your current situation and ask him the strength and grace to achieve your eternal destiny.

When something seems impossible to me, only God can change that. There are many things I need to talk with him, there have been times when I feel faint, they forget my commitments, I absorbed the routine. In this case only the intervention of God can change this situation. I'll work to "invite" to be part of this challenge, this commitment adquirirdo to give my marriage a spiritual sense that makes him the ministry should be.

20 - LOVE IS JESUS \u200b\u200bCHRIST

Dare to receive God and His Word.
Dare to believe that Jesus Christ is the Savior.
Dare to say in prayer: "Jesus, I am a sinner (a). But you have shown me Your love to die to forgive my sins and through of Your power, I saved from death through your resurrection. Lord, change my heart and save me by Thy grace. "

We are spoiled to take Christ out of our lives. We thought we were going to cross fan of obsessive, etc. And when we really decided to accept it, no peace more than we feel. Take Jesus to guide our marriage and our lives is enormous courage, a commitment beautiful, unlike all other commitments that we acquire in our lives, it releases and not drown. With Christ in the midst of our marriage, success is assured.

He (Jesus) gave his life for us
and in this we know love
now we must give our lives for the brethren.
(I John 3, 16)