Reading the book "House on the rock" about dating and marriage P. Bojorge I began to think about issues such as equality between men and women. This is a fact, since we are equal in dignity, we are children of God, but we differ on when Nuesto appearance. say This is the spiritual side of the dating relationship or marriage. All these considerations led me to "land" the ideas of P. Bojorge and bring them to my personal and that of many couples I know and we've had problems in our courtship, and therefore, in our marriage.
Have you heard that phrase "the habit does not make the man? True, it does not, but rather it represents.
Have you seen any person who appears to be in their natural environment and that you think "and what it presumes you live in ..."? Yesterday
reading this book, mentioned Fr Bojorge that many people pass along the love of her life with her partner ... and not recognize it. And lost.
And many, most are married to him or her .... and not know they are a kind. And some end up separated, unfortunately.
Have you ever thought about why some couples stay married despite having so many problems? Are a classic pair that does not explain how if they are so similar, very nearly the same, have so many problems?
You see them and say, "Gee, but if they are made in heaven, how can you see?"
And some end up separated ... and their marriage is lost. Because they do not realize they are two of a kind, they are equal.
When Eve was created, Adam said: "That if flesh of my flesh, bone of my bones." That is, recognized her as someone like him. Then God said, "the man leaves the house of their fathers"
In the Bible when it comes to man is understood to be the man and woman, as in this case. And it stressed that no machismo has been interpreted, but because it is the reality: They deserve each other. The same, clearly different in their physical skills and attitudes, but basically the same.
Then why many marriages do not understand? There are many causes, but I think the main one is the ignorance of other people. And that knowledge is not only what you like or not. Or even that family comes. Neither the location where it is.
The other man who is our partner, it's a whole: the present is the past and his future.
often meet a person in a neighborhood and say, "Oh, my! It like it's not here, as it does not fit" And we also Sorry that it snaps into place, we come to that or one that does not fit. And we click.
However, after that click, something happens ... and each one takes for your course. What happened?
I analyzed the situation of several couples who conosco, including my own marriage and I ended up discovering something that we have in common: Each
we met in a different environment that we were born or the development of small. That is, we ask, "Where do you live?" and answer in ... (In my case, Iztacalco, which was where he lived, when I met my husband. What about you? In Neza. "And since we have ideas
prefabricated because as the image and attitudes are reflected not from that site. Many at that time, become disenchanted .... and goodbye.
Others followed him to see what happens, because that person tells me something.
However, I did not grow or Iztacalco, and my husband in Neza. Born and raised in another colony and analyzing the environment in which we operate, we are equal, whether he works in a better place than I, or live in a house better than mine.
My husband cretion in Colonia Moctezuma 1a. Balbuena and Garden section.
He studied there, his companions were there, as well as all the guys that were married to people of that colony or nearby colonies. They were a big family.
I was born in Coyoacan, but I unwrapped in a school closer to his.
Let me explain: Coyoacán, you know, is one of the oldest in the city (there are neighborhoods and towns where people do not have much money, but they are very large families, like my husband). However, issues of life in the colony studied the valley, which is very similar to the Jardín Balbuena where my husband unwrapped.
The environment in which we move, but the characteristics of our family and ours, are what make up our personality.
My husband and I grew up in similar environments, but I live in a colony of the oldest and he in a more "modern."
the moment, may seem very different because we know that neither the colony where I lived and the colony where I was born, it was for how I can deal with, as well as when I met him nor were the way they cope with where he lived.
Carried away by appearances, we could say we were not compatible, so.
Anyone can think of someone who was born and raised in the Coyoacan neighborhood is very traditional (which I am) but as I grew up in other much more modern, I'm more like my husband.
The parents live in Neza, a long time lived with his grandmother and had much influence on it (is a traditionalist like me, but more modern)
Many left with the feint to know me and know that my family was in Coyoacan. Some even thought he had money hahaha. I am a mixture of tradition and modernism, as is my husband. And like him, our looks, our clothes did not correspond to the place where we lived, the influence of the environment where we develop.
Some couples who apparently are not as close as we are. .
Conosco a couple in which he has a university degree opens doors, but it missing tables, missing the social development that took his now wife to live with people from a wealthy colony, which the matches in their dealings with others.
are the same for the environment in which they met. Both in Neza where he was born and raised. He brings the knowledge that gives the studio and her knowledge of life itself, that gave you birth and develop in a different atmosphere to it.
conosco Another couple, both he and his family were unwrapped in the USA, she in a provincial town where they met and where she was born and raised. Both did not have higher education. And although apparently are equal by the fact that they come from states together and therefore have a little more money, are actually complementary, the education that your father and mother Accountant with a broad social development, gave the girl. Are a pair that complements, but can be equal if he acquires more knowledge.
Let's start asking 
