Monday, October 12, 2009

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40 DAYS DEDICATED TO MARRIAGE-3


21 .- THE SATISFACTION IN GOD IS LOVE

Try to find a special time for prayer and Bible reading. Try reading a chapter of Proverbs each day (there are 31 chapters, enough for a month), or read a chapter of the Gospels. Whatever you choose, immerse yourself in love and the promises God has for us. This will add spiritual growth during your journey with Him

If we are right with God, we hardly get along with others, including our spouse.

During my time in the workshop of prayer, I learned that those who are not accustomed to pray, to talk to God, it is impossible to reflect something that has no inside. The more we pray, God is more present in our consciousness and we easily from selfishness to love, I stop being myself to be more reflective of my Father. If you do not talk to Him and read His Word how we can know and thus become more like Him?
open your hand, and satisfy the desire of every living being.
(Psalm 145:16)


22 .- TRUE LOVE IS

Love is a choice, not a feeling. It is an action brought, not a knee-jerk reaction. Choose today to dedicate to love, even if your spouse has lost any interest in receiving it. Tell

today some words like these: "I love you. I have chosen to love, even if you do not pays me. "

When we understand that love is something we have chosen, then it is less difficult to carry out this exercise of faithfulness and endurance. If a relationship is broken, not fixed in a moment's notice. So we must be patient if we want to save it. We must stand boldly stand with conviction and all that comes over us. If trust is damaged, our efforts are multiplied and can easily succumb to disillusionment. So we need to cling to the Lord as we saw in the previous days, for the strength of Him who help withstand the onslaught of distrust and resentment that our spouse can shed on our efforts. This is a very difficult that only love and LOVE, we can overcome.


I will betroth with mutual fidelity,
and you know who is Lord.
(Hosea 2:22)


23 .- LOVE ALWAYS PROTECTS

Remove anything that is hindering your relationship, any attachment or influence that is stealing your warmth and keeping your heart away your spouse (a).

More there are more risks that can undermine our marriage and we must be always ready and willing to defend against everything and everyone. You need a united front and agree to do together, and be alert to the dangers that lurk in sheep costume. Not all friendships are healthy for our marriage, not all entertainment help our integration as a couple, not all who come to us do so with the intention to respect us. And we must always be an insurmountable barrier to all those hazards that can upset our relationship. It is a fact that under the concept of "my friends are my friends and I will never leave", hides the latent danger of allowing comments, "advice", rumors, etc. that can undermine our marriage. The most important thing must always be our spouse.

24 .- LOVE VS LUST

Finish it now. Identifies each object of lust in your life and remove it. Select every lie that you have left into your life in the pursuit of forbidden pleasure and reject it. A Lust not be allowed to live in the back room. Should be killed and destroyed today and be replaced by the sure promises of God and a heart full of His perfect love.

What we lost the compass and we understand that love is respect, fidelity, intimacy and strength of will to sustain all this?

We are used to succumb to our baser instincts and confuse sex, passion, lust, satisfaction with love. We realize it is because of this that many marriages fail, because once they stop receiving and "feel" all these things, then believe that the love is gone, when in fact there never was and start looking elsewhere what confused with love. What can we do to instill in young people, teach our children

the true sense of love and fidelity? We will have to begin to demonstrate to our spouse and take care of it is very clear the love we feel for him or her.
Sean
free but not freedom
make an excuse to do evil.
I Peter 2, 16


25 .- Love forgives

Anything that still have not forgiven your partner, forgive today. Forget it, let it go. Just as we ask Jesus every day: "Forgive us our trespasses," and we ask Him to help us to "forgive those who trespass against us" every day too. The anger keeps us in prison for a long time. Say it from the bottom of your heart, "I choose to forgive."
Forgiveness is a decision that frees us from an enormous weight in most cases, only that it carried a grudge.

If we are talking about our spouse, the willingness to forgive should be much stronger, it is the person we've chosen to share nososros lifetime.

25 .- LOVE IS RESPONSIBLE

Take the time to pray for those areas where you are failing. Ask God forgive you and agree with those who have enough humility your spouse (a). Do it sincerely and in truth. Ask forgiveness to your spouse. No matter what you answer, make sure you accept all responsibility with love. Even if you respond to criticism, accept them and receive them as advice.

We must take responsibility for our past deeds and recognize them. This is an act of humility that not everyone has, only that they love. This is where many fail, we are so full of pride, so full of ourselves, so sick of our image, our reputation, we are unable to ask for forgiveness for the mistakes we committed. This is an opportunity to be responsible to our partners and accept, without fear of rejection, fear of criticism-that-be.

If we have no sin, we are deceiving ourselves and the truth is not in us.
I John 1, 8


26 - LOVE IS RESPONSIBLE

Take the time to pray for those areas where you are failing. Ask God to forgive you and enough humility to accept those that have your husband (a). Do it sincerely and in truth. Ask forgiveness to your spouse. No matter what you answer, make sure you accept all responsibility with love. Even if you respond to criticism, accept them and receive them as advice.
We must take responsibility for our past deeds and recognize them. This is an act of humility that not everyone has, only that they love. This is where many fail, we are so full of pride, so full of ourselves, so sick of our image, our reputation, we are unable to ask for forgiveness for the mistakes we made. This is an opportunity to be responsible to our partners and accept, without fear of rejection, fear of criticism-that-be.
If we have no sin,
we are deceiving ourselves,
and the truth is not in us.
I John 1, 8

ANIMA LOVE 27 .-
Removes poison unrealistic expectations at home. Think of an area where your wife (or) you said you're expecting too much from her (him), and say that you regret having been so hard (a) with it. Promise to try to understand (or), and assure her that you love him unconditionally.
The expectations that we sometimes have on our partners we are often out of hand. We expect a lot, we love, we demand a lot, but sometimes we are not willing to give to the same extent. One thing is that we encourage our partner to achieve goals and another thing is that we who raised too much and drown as the impetus of our partner.


28 .- THE LOVE MAKES SACRIFICES
What is one of the greatest needs in the life of your spouse now? Is there any charge that could remove from his shoulders today and share with him (It) an act of sacrifice? If the need is great or small, set a goal to do whatever it takes to fix.
One of the questions that should always be in our mouths is "How I can help you?", "What I can do for you?"
know we can not go through life guessing what our spouse needs, we risk to understand things different plane or even see what you need most at that time. Asking questions is the best and clearest solution and be ready always to remove burdens from the shoulders of another.
carry loads from one another,
and so fulfill the law of Christ.
Galatians 6: 2

298 .- LOVE IS MOTIVATION
Before you see your wife (or) again during the day, pray for it ( him) and their needs. Easy or not for you, say "I love you", then express your love in some tangible way. Go back to your prayer to God and thank Him for giving you the privilege to love this special person, unconditionally, just as He love them both.
When my husband I started having problems at the beginning of our marriage, much relied upon by the desire to be the one who put more motivation, who fought over who would more. After all the wretched process which we live, we decided it was worth trying again, starting over, we realized that our motivation should not depart from the other, even ourselves, but the need to please God , to give honor and glory to our attitude, our relationship with our family. At the time that "include," at that time things were straightened out.

30 .- UNIT BRINGS LOVE
Notes generate any areas that division in your marriage, and now uses a new opportunity to pray for it. Ask the Lord to reveal anything you have in your heart and is threatening the unity with your spouse. Pray that He will do the same with your partner. And if appropriate, discuss this openly, seeking unity in God.
If everyone pulled by his side, hardly win against the division. And a marriage that is not joined will not create a family together.
You need to talk, talk, to stand together, have joint goals and not just individual goals. And do not miss anything that may affect or undermine our relationship.
Holy Father, keep them in the name of you that given me,
to be one like us.
John 17, 11b

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