How often dreamed of marrying in white at the altar? The wedding gown symbolizes purity of heart, purity to which all women aspire. Purity that we give to God.
dresses for women are important.
The dress we carry in our baptism, confirmation and first communion, possibly chose our parents.
The first dress we chose and we look at a party in our honor is fifteen years (in some cases, when we celebrate it) which is the official presentation of a girl to society, to people who are part of the circle in which we live.
is an important day for girls.
Many do not have that party on economic issues and is a major celebration, but not vital.
However, you may have noticed that many young joints occur after their fifteenth birthday and many times the principal chamberlain. Does it have something to do that many girls choose white or pearl for the dress of your fifteenth birthday? XV
Year's dress should be in pastel colors or other colors, but not white or pearl-like tones.
I am a dressmaker, I have made several dresses and Wedding Sweet Sixteen and I noticed that many girls celebrate their fifteenth birthday, dressed in white, or soon join with her boyfriend or just do not get married by the Church.
The wedding dress is something special. Not by himself, but for its meaning. With it mean that we deliver our pure, clean our hearts together to form the one we love, a home, purity of heart that we try to keep during our marriage is, until the end of our lives.
Have you ever seen a teenager that seems a girlfriend? I do. And sad. It's sad because normally a dress chosen by the mother. It is like stealing your dream to your own daughter.
The fifteenth birthday is a holiday that should benefit most of all, the quinceañera. Is your presentation to the society. The dress should be chosen for her, assisted by her mother, her godmother, and so on. but above all for her.
The fifteenth birthday party is a party usually attended by friends, relatives. It's a party expected from girls. No matter if you have few or many friends, is very nice to have her. I have attended
fifteenth birthday parties where there is everything, so young. I attended one where there was a single friend of the teenager, was held in another city, with a vestdo of beautiful bride with her mother's relatives (uncles, cousins, etc.). and your dad. Interestingly, the mother wanted to be married and her father did not want that. And interestingly, this girl got married almost thirty years.
recently attended the wedding of his sister. She was not held their fifteenth birthday or poorly or richly. She was radiant in her dress. The party was like a Sweet Sixteen party, full of her friends, cousins \u200b\u200band close relatives.
you believe me if I told you she was walking by your side happy, with friends, cousins \u200b\u200band her husband of yours? Will you believe me when I say that after dancing with her boyfriend, the father, cousins \u200b\u200band uncles were distributed like carnival masks?
Have you heard that as a wedding or a Sweet Sixteen?
Well, their marriage lasted only 1 year and little else.
When not aware of what marriage is, when you have so many frustrations, so many hard feelings, so many stones in the heart, the wedding dress is not a symbol of purity.
It was a sad wedding, despite the glamorous, despite the luxury. It was a sad marriage that God will heal and restore hope.
is not possible for us as parents, have no awareness of what marriage is, the difference between a fifteenth birthday and a wedding.
Maybe it's because we are unaware of our relationship with God, the purpose of our own lives and can not therefore make our children feel that their life is so precious that God created them.
A wedding is the union of two beings who love, which are meant to live together for life, to rejoice at each other, to make happy the other. I will comment you
own testimony:
I once had a vision where I left my body, traveled through the universe, but not a dark universe, but full of light and stars, where the end was the Virgin.
On another occasion I went to a place of pain, anguish where there many men and women crying, screaming.
recognized two people died and many others, asked her wedding ring.
were the souls of people who either never married or did not fulfill their vows.
were the souls of people who broke their marriage relationship as a couple and their life on earth, never forgave each other, not reconciled.
were suffering souls.
I felt myself sinking, which I missed, then went to another place far more sinister, more pain could not get out. Only managed to get me a higher power: Jesus.
comment I do not like this, but I must. These are messages given to us, to share.
I have known people who have visited the Purgatory (the place I visited) but in different places: where people are lustful, where people are greedy, and so on. Not everyone on the same site.
If you plan to marry, please be aware that the marriage is not just clothing, just the party. It's really a covenant, a covenant is made sacrifices at the altar.
it I do not like to give testimony that people who fear being unable to meet, decide not to marry.
It would be foolish: If you know God, if you marry knowing that it is His will that you do, you know that he shall lead him to succeed.
If you live in union not satisfied with the Will of God.
you say as many: "I do not care and the Will of God, what God is that they will not let me free?
Where is the free will and my decision making?
would be right to ask, but not right in your conclusions: God gives us freedom. Freedom has its limits, otherwise, would debauchery.
And it gives us a freedom with limits, for our own good. It gives us the freedom to choose between good and evil.
Good gives us happiness.
The evil ends for us to suffer.
Happiness is not absence of pain, acceptance of pain and joy.
decision making is always given: We have to choose between going or not going to a party. We have to choose between leaving or not, etc..
And what basis do we make those decisions? From our knowledge of good and evil. We know it is bad and many times we do, then we may enjoy for a moment, but at the cost of great pain later. The old saying "And we danced, whom should I remove it?" We apply a lot. Dance for 1 hour without permission from our parents to assist him, ended up suffering the punishment for our disobedience.
I ask please think about what you've shared and take the best decisions, those that lead you down the road of happiness durable, not that take you by the momentary joy and eternal pain.
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